Republished with permission from a forcescience.org email blast:
An officer we’ll call Joe arrived at a residence to check out a 911 hang-up and interrupted a mentally disturbed man trying to strangle his mother with a telephone cord and scalp her with a kitchen knife after wounding her and his father with bullets to the head. A gun battle erupted between Joe and the would-be killer in a parking area outside. In the midst of fighting for his life, Joe radioed a warning to get a school directly across the street safely on lockdown. His wife was a teacher there and two of his kids were students.
The suspect ended up dead. Joe suffered a nonfatal g.s.w. to his side. But no civilians were injured in the shootout. Even the suspect’s parents survived. Not surprisingly, Joe was showered with public accolades. But within his department, some very different reactions slithered out. To his shock, some cops he worked with displayed blatant “award envy,” sarcastically mocking to his face the ceremonial acknowledgments he received.
“It was stunning,” says Brian Murphy, who has experienced some stunning things himself as a presidential Public Safety Medal of Valor winner. “Would you ever think law enforcement officers would begrudge a fellow officer shot in the line of duty?”
Murphy used Joe’s incident to introduce his personal reflections on the limelight at the recent annual WINx training event hosted in a Chicago suburb by Force Science Analysts Brian Willis and Roy Bethge. His topic was a phenomenon rarely discussed in law enforcement circles: the dark aftermath of heroic actions.
Murphy won international acclaim as the first responding officer to a white supremacist’s shooting rampage at a Sikh temple near Milwaukee in 2012. Six Sikh worshippers were killed, others wounded, and Murphy was shot 15 times in a confrontation with the gunman.
Since his retirement from the Oak Creek (WI) PD in 2013, he has served as the “Saves Program manager” for Armor Express, the ballistic vest manufacturer, and has been a popular figure on the law enforcement lecture circuit. He estimates he’s talked to more than 200 shooting survivors, typically depicted as heroes for their fateful encounters.
“I ask them what they most want,” he told Force Science News after his WINx presentation. “Almost to a person, they say the same thing: ‘I’d like my old life back.’ ”
In their fantasies, officers who haven’t been there yet “may want that hero status,” Murphy says. “But there’s a price that comes with it, a penalty you wind up paying.”
In a voice still raspy from a throat wound, he’s quick to point out that in his shooting the Sikh victims, their loved ones, and their religious community paid a price of pain that “will last far longer than mine ever will.” And yet, “from being a normal, workaday officer to all of a sudden getting the hero label—there’s just so much more to it than meets the eye.”
Here are some of the behind-the-scenes elements, in addition to collegial resentment, that you may need to prepare yourself for, he says, depending on the circumstances of your incident.
You may feel a sense of unworthiness about your “hero” designation. “You can become a media darling without doing a tremendous amount,” Murphy says.
“The definition of ‘hero’ is ‘performing extraordinarily in extraordinary circumstances.’ But in law enforcement and the military, facing and overcoming danger is not extraordinary, it’s part of our job. The standard for heroism tends to be much higher among us than for civilians.
“So when you’re slapped with that hero label, you think, ‘No, what I did doesn’t match up to people I regard as heroes. Brian Murphy is not Audie Murphy.’ ” (Audie Murphy was one of the most decorated American soldiers in World War II, who at age 19 held off a company of German soldiers singlehandedly, then led a successful counterattack while wounded and out of ammo.)
If innocent people were killed in your incident, you may be haunted by “survivor guilt,” Murphy warns.
“The Sikhs were victims of radicalized hate, singled out for execution for their heritage, their faith, their color. All they did was take time out of their busy lives to pray; that’s it, just pray, and for that, they gave their lives. That cannot be wiped away.
“Their leader, a 65-year-old man, sacrificed himself trying to protect his flock. That’s a hero. I couldn’t keep all those deaths from happening, yet I survived. It doesn’t seem fair. That’s a lot to come to terms with.”
“My wife and I are very private people,” Murphy says. “The day before my shooting, we could go where we wanted and do what we wanted and nobody noticed. After that day, people often recognized me from TV or the papers. They’d interrupt whatever we were doing to comment or ask me about the shooting or want to know how I was doing or maybe pay our bill at a restaurant.
“We appreciated their appreciation, but wanting to be anonymous at that point was just as important to us.
“Career ballplayers or movie stars are used to attention. Most of them have had it all their lives. But for us, our anonymity was ripped away and it felt like we were suddenly living in a spotlight.”
As cops, “We all like to think we’re the baddest guy on the planet,” Murphy observes. But a “heroic” event that leaves you injured can deliver not only the shocking reality of your vulnerability but other “things outsiders never see” that assault your personal dignity as well
An officer who’d been nearly killed by a shotgun blast described to Murphy the “super pain” of his wife scrubbing out his wounds every day. When he tried to return to work, “he wasn’t able to buckle his Sam Browne by himself. His wife had to do it for him.”
Murphy, fit at 50 from regular workouts at the time of his shooting, had been married only a year when the gunman’s rounds “turned me into a human sprinkler.” During his recovery, his wife had to feed him through a tube. Worse, because his wounded hands were incapacitated, “I couldn’t fold toilet paper. She had to come in and wipe me. That,” he says in a near-whisper, “is humbling.”
“A heroic event can throw your family into a mess,” Murphy says. “Your training, perseverance, or vest may have kept you alive, but when it’s all said and done, you came that close.
“Your family may not want you to go to work again. Another shooting survivor told me his 10-year-old son wouldn’t let him out of his sight, clung to him everywhere he went. My six-year-old stepdaughter had never seen me as anything but a big, strong guy. Now I was hooked up to a bunch of machines. She couldn’t grasp it. She wanted no part of me. My 22-year-old daughter, who was teaching overseas, was furious because she thought she should be there caring for me.
Murphy and his wife were scheduled to leave on a delayed honeymoon a week after he was shot. As he lay bleeding outside the temple, it flashed into his mind, Boy, is she gonna be pissed!
Fortunately for me, she wasn’t. Instead, “she was my psychologist, my physician, my best friend—everything to me. Her normal routine was completely upended and she had to deal with stuff like worker’s comp and various law enforcement protocols, in addition to medical procedures, that she had no experience or familiarity with. Yet when we went to ceremonies or social gatherings after I recovered, she’d be shoved off to the side and all the attention would be on me.”
One of the dark aspects of heroism that has most impressed him, Murphy says, is “how everyone in your family will be truly affected, especially kids. You need a strong bond going in and good therapy for the whole family coming out” to emerge with everyone intact.
In an ironic sense, something marked as heroic can be belittling, Murphy believes.
“I served over two decades on my department. I ran the SWAT team, I ran the evidence team, I ran the emergency management team, I got an award for leadership from the command school at Northwestern University, I solved cases through good, solid police work, I trained and worked with guys and gals who are fine police officers.
“But then on one Sunday morning a guy shows up and shoots the hell out of me. Those few seconds—1.51 minutes—overshadow everything I did in law enforcement for 22 years. That now defines me, and I feel it has diminished other things in my career that I’m more proud of.”
FACING THE FUTURE
With more than a whiff of nostalgia Murphy says, “I’d absolutely be heading the list of people to get my old life back if that were possible…doing things that are forgotten right away, with no attention paid to them.
“You tell yourself, I didn’t ask for any of this. Easy to say, not so easy to deal with.
“We all have plans of how we think our lives will play out. Then ‘the thing’ happens and those plans are gone, to one degree of another. You knew what you were gonna do, but you may not know what to do when you have to find a new normal that has never existed for you before.
“You can want to go backward forever, but that’s never going to happen. Sooner or later, you have to answer the big questions: What do I have now? And what am I going to do with it?”
With time and adaptation, some of the shadows begin to fade, Murphy says four-plus years after his shooting. But the impact of the event rarely vanishes entirely.
“My wife and I will be driving someplace,” he says, “and I’ll notice her looking at me. ‘What?’ I’ll say.
“And she’ll say, ‘I still can’t believe you were shot 15 times and are still alive.’ And I’ll say, ‘I can’t either.’
“She cries easier than I do, but not by much. We keep on driving, and the moment passes…for now.”
Brian Murphy can be reached at: [email protected]
How on earth does a person get shot 15 times and live through it. Was it a .22, or pellet gun? I was thinking two-three hits at most would be fatal. What caliber gun do you need to put someone down? Permanently?
According to Wikipedia, a 9mm XDm. So that means the officer was hit with almost an entire magazine.
The shots that would have been quickly lethal were stopped by the vest. But being shot a bunch of times in the arms and legs is still not a healthy thing… I imagine the medical personnel had a lot to do with him surviving (after his own determination to continue the fight, that is)
He was shot in the face/jaw, also. I can’t imagine the physical pain he still must feel.
By being a tough MF’er and having the will to not die.
That was probably the most impactful, hard-hitting piece I’ve ever read on TTAG. I’m impressed and moved at the same time.
Glad my wife didn’t have to hear about that. Came close a couple of times but she never had to see this.
Wow. That was a powerful interview.
A couple of my squad mates have been involved in shooting bad guys. The latest was quite interesting. Bad guy lit himself up. Oops.
Okay. I know the shooter used a Springfield XD 9mm. Does anyone have any idea what type of ammunition he used? Murphy was shot 15 times. 9 of the shots entered his body. The other 6 were stopped by his vest.
Most likely full-metal jacket.
I’m betting FMJ, too.
Here is a little more info.
Thanks for the link, JDC.
Thank you for the work you’ve done, Mr. Murphy, and will continue to do. I couldn’t care less what kind of gun your attacker used or what his marksmanship skills were; I’m sure you’d say they were all too good.
“To his shock, some cops he worked with displayed blatant “award envy,” sarcastically mocking to his face the ceremonial acknowledgments he received.”
Eh, cop humor (first responder humor in general) is often pretty harsh. I wonder if it was ‘award envy’ so much as just making fun of everything.
It isn’t. Type A’s, and the other personalities often found in the cop shop do not like to be overshadowed.
Even the soft-spoken and more Type-B among us understand our own culture’s humor. Razzing and attacking can be a subtle line, but I’ve been at the receiving end of both enough to differentiate.
There are those who see nothing good unless they are getting the accolades. If you take the spotlight, no matter how traumatically, watch out.
Xlnt article; needs to be more widely heard, unlike the often bogus BLM propaganda we’re always having pushed on us.
Pretty much in complete agreement with the comments above, that is very touching video. Will share this with my wife when she gets home as well. Not to mention the fact that this hammers the Mindset+Tools+Training mentality into me even more. The entire first part of the story, I was hoping to hear that he went to the trunk and got his rifle, and smoked the POS.
Happy new year y’all!
Locally, a number of years ago a man was mad his ex was with another man so he kicked in their door. He emptied his Glock 9mm into his chest. Fifteen rounds I think. The man survived. I heard he was in a drug induced coma for 5 months. I assume he has permanent life altering injuries for the rest of his life.
Edit: like the new edit feature. Thanks. My anti gun iPhone changed glock to flock.
He is no hero, he was doing his job, he got shot, that is part of the job.
Cool story, bro.
He was a hero because he went in and engaged the murderer. He could have waited like the police at Columbine High.
Which is what he takes a bloated paycheck to do. He is not a “hero”.
Per that reasoning, it is flat out impossible for any cop nor military on duty, to gain status of “hero.” No matter what he does, since he’s just “doing his job.”
In reality, it would be very easy, and very common, for an officer to approach the threat (not to himself, merely others) slower and more cautiously. Moving in slower, never leaving good cover etc… He would still be doing his job, as there is no one way to do it. It’s all individual, in the heat of the moment, judgment.
Instead, he closed in on the threat quickly. In a fashion some may deem reckless, in order to minimize the time the perp had to inflict damage to others. Despite the fact that by doing so, exposed he himself to greater danger than the job strictly “requires.” To most people, that’s starting to get pretty close to heroic.
Paycheck would be the same if he turned and ran. I suspect you have never been shot at.
You want to get 4 grand a month to take 15? What a tool.
“Bloated paycheck”? In law enforcement? You seem quite ignorant.
Congrats, darkwing duck. In addition to being a conspiracy theory nutter you’re now a proven as#hole.
This is a side of lawful shootings that we don’t see enough of. It reinforces the notion that carrying is a serious responsibility, whether or not you’re LE. On a side note, it’s good to read about a Force Science Institute re-post here on TTAG. If some of the officers in this story think they’re getting too much attention, I feel like FSI’s projects should get more. Stay safe in 2017.
Why are they giving these government employees awards for doing the job they are paid to do? Their bloated paychecks, platinum benefits, and early retirements are their “awards”. They are not “heroes”.
Sometimes the stupidity is nauseating.
Chris crosses into retard country. If anybody was being paid by the left to make us look bad chris is in my top 5 list of suspects.