I am fairly young. I’m relatively stupid. And I really have no idea what it takes to break into the predominately OFWG (Old Fat White Guy for the newer TTAG readers) gun crowd. However, I’ve been working to find my way as a gunner for a while now, and figure someone might benefit from my experience . . .
Several years ago I purchased a Beretta 92G and had absolutely no idea what to do with it. It was only the second handgun I had ever fired, the first being a couple rounds through a S&W Model 14, and I had done zero research of any kind into handgun techniques/methodology.
I knew I wanted a Beretta 92 due to that absolutely great in-hand feel, but I didn’t even know that it was a “G” until I no longer had the gun. The lack of a safety made me nervous so I kept it with no round chambered. My first magazine had reloaded hollowpoints I’d purchased at a small-town gun show, and the second had some random frangible ammo I’d purchase not even knowing what that meant.
I would still put it under my pillow regardless of my lack of comfort though, because you know, that’s what movies showed the “gun guy” was supposed to do, and of course, I was CLEARLY a gun guy. I shot rarely, had very little knowledge of my firearm or the laws associated with it, and had no means to carry/transport it other than a $9.99 plastic hard case. That was my first step into the world of gun ownership.
Later, I made a more concerted effort to get into the firearms scene. If I hadn’t studied diligently enough, I might have done something like openly carry my FNX-45 into an area that disallows OC by state law. I can only speculate of course that the one comment I might have gotten would have been a compliment followed by “what gun is that?”
Obviously I wouldn’t have been the only uneducated firearm fan that day…if that had happened. Imagine my “relief” when I did more study on state legalities and found out about this restriction and the apparent 4th degree felony I managed to avoid by not putting myself into such an uneducated and stupid position.
Another unpleasant experience involved IWB concealing a full-size handgun in a Kydex IWB/OWB modular holster for 2 days. Wow, talk about a major sore spot. I legitimately thought I had injured myself. Almost limping from the pain, red and nearly raw area, and ridiculously tender raised welt. Sound fun? Yeah, it wasn’t.
Even as I researched more about firearms, I still had embarrassing moments. Shall I tell you about getting screamed at in front of an entire conceal carry class for having my finger on the trigger? Sure I was just dissembling my XD-S to check the lubrication on it just before our next range session. And sure the instructor had dissembled his GLOCK about 20 times to that point in front of the class. And sure my gun was pointed in a safe direction, but….
Uhh wait, what was the “but” again? Oh, I just wanted to vent about getting yelled at? That’s right. (I know I know, classroom setting and all. Relax. It was still frustrating to get hollered at and besides, the whole goal here is to display my mistakes, right?)
Here’s the point: I don’t know everything about guns, but I’ve come a long way. How did I manage it? I read sites like The Truth About Guns, I watched videos, and I listened to podcasts to learn what was acceptable and what information had merit. Do your research. Look at the pros and cons of each firearm-related choice, try your best to understand what constitutes good gun manners, and do so BEFORE claiming to be a “gun person”.
Perhaps, like me, you’re not-so-Old, not-so-Fat, only half White, and wondering how you can fit in. Well, quit trying to. Just be an everyday guy or gal trying to gain knowledge, and you’ll find a place. We’d love to have you.